!...Muy Complicado!
The groom was a cousin of a good friend of mine, so she enabled me to crash/understand the wedding, as I am neither Mexican or Catholic. Before the wedding, my friend took me around Hermosillo, her father's home town, where we dined on exquisite tacos from a vendor's cart, saw the university where her father lived, and generally spent time with her family. As this is a health blog, I could tell you such vendors would be ostracized in the U.S. due to his "unsanitary" food preparation conditions, but since I am biased, I'm not going to discuss that aspect of the trip. (The five tacos I had were delicious, by the way. My friends and family pray I won't contract some rare disease, to which I say "pish-posh!").
The health risk I am going to talk about doesn't necessarily apply to Mexico itself, but does apply to weddings: stress.
Research detailing the effects of stress on our bodies has been "emerging" for years, and it seems to me that everyone who has survived through middle school acne knows what effects stress can have. But, just in case, here are some resources: some are flashy and some are practical.
Also, here's a basic run-down of the symptoms, compiled nicely by HelpGuide.org:
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Weddings, which require balancing dreams and expectations to throw a realistic party, are probably -the- most stressful situations in our young lives, and more often than not, brides tend to flip out. Families the world over know this; in Mexico, there is generally an outpouring of family support, such that the family is extremely involved in planning and funding the wedding (depending on the family; this was certainly the case with my friend, and she claims the rest of Mexico regards weddings similarly). America also knows this; in addition to having families support the bride, we made a satirical show about it, called Bridezilla, which follows real brides as they terrorize their poor wedding attendants (note, the video contains quite a bit of censored swearing; you have been warned):
But in Mexico, more so than America, the cuture of the family really shows and pulls through. There are so many traditions in religious Mexican ceremonies that simply -must- be followed, and so many family members that want attention from the bride and groom, that I can't even imagine the stress that a couple must feel in a Mexican, Catholic ceremony. It seems as if they have very little freedom to control what is going on around them, which would drive me nuts.
I admired the bride in this wedding for keeping her cool through all of it. I would have had a nervous breakdown during the ceremony if a random girl decided to crash my wedding and write about it. :)